Danger: High Water
April 23, 2009 – 10:45 amWhy do guys with millions of dollars kill themselves over financial problems?
Because they HAD a billion.
I’m sure Tiger Woods, one day with a friend, shot a 57 or something insane…on his best day….his high-water mark.
But I’m positive he isn’t thinking “break 57″ as he stands on the first tee at Augusta. In fact, I’m quite sure he’s not thinking about winning, or any score at all.
He’s thinking about the drive he’s about to hit. Analyzing his options, deciding what he wants to happen, visualizing a result and then executing the shot without fear.
Learn from this.
There is extreme danger in high-water marks. You should absolutely ignore them.
Comparing your current situation to the best situation you’ve ever been in is an invitation for self-doubt, sadness, hindsight and a general loss of the ass-kicking swagger that allowed you to reach that high-water mark in the first place.
In addition, obsession with high-water marks often leads to very risky behavior. Large, leveraged trades. Lies. Steroids. Hell….I’m willing to bet that 90% of ponzi schemes start off legit and slippery slope their way into ponzis as the manager begins to fudge the numbers to avoid showing a big move off that high-water mark.
Do yourself a favor, right now. FORGET the high number that your investing account, trading account, net worth, vertical jump, whatever was at at its peak. Free yourself of the impossible standard that you wouldn’t hold anyone else in the world to. Silence your critics by refusing to listen to them (they’ll never shut up on their own.)
Analyze your situation honestly.
Determine a course of action.
Visualize the intended result.
Execute fearlessly.
