There’s something very compelling about people who obviously do not need your approval, money or help.  You want to help them, invest in them.  
No one wants to back someone that NEEDS them.  It’s like dating a stalker.  Not gonna happen.
Fake it til you make it has its applications, but eventually you gotta earn your style.  Be badass.
Another post on style from the least-stylish dude on the world wide webs (other than certain corners of SF and Manhattan)….

There’s something very compelling about people who obviously do not need your approval, money or help.  You want to help them, invest in them.  

No one wants to back someone that NEEDS them.  It’s like dating a stalker.  Not gonna happen.

Fake it til you make it has its applications, but eventually you gotta earn your style.  Be badass.

Another post on style from the least-stylish dude on the world wide webs (other than certain corners of SF and Manhattan)….